Beautiful Mind, Better than a Fair Complexion


           “A beautiful life begins with a beautiful mind.” Your mind is a beautiful thing. When you fill it with positive thoughts, your life will start to change. We come across such people in our lives that have an aura of that positive vibes. A person shouldn’t be judge by their complexion. Our mind should be beautiful; we should always accept the thing or a person as they are. For example – the lotus plant; it grows in mud but it’s beautiful and people accept the way it is. A person’s intension or their behaviour is known by their mind, people always like those who have beautiful mind thinking. A family stays happy when all the members have positive and beautiful mind set. A person is known by its personality and personality comes from the way of their communication with the other person. These kinds of people handle situation very smoothly without any quarrel.   

But people judge you by your looks (complexions). If you are fair in complexion you will be praised as   beautiful. People think if you are fair in complexion then you are classy and well behaved, which is always not true. Some people think it as curse or they call them unholy and the mother of the child is always been taunted for giving birth to such baby. Complexion problem has become a problem these days that’s whys people wear masks of makeup and many more skin products to looks classy, bold and also beautiful. In this 21st century over social media people edit their photos and post it on social media, but deep down inside they that’s not their individuality.          

Girl child or women face this kind of things mostly. They are told to clean their face and apply the homemade face scrubs. They are always judged because if their skin will not be fair or glow then they will not select as bride by no man. And if marriage happens in some situation then comes dowry problem. Not only girls are judged by their complexion but boys and men also face it different ways. Some rejected for marriage and some by ragging. Even in school we come across such things. Parents are the main reasons for this kind of complexion kind of things. 

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